Okay I have a complicated situation that I would love help with. I co- own a home with a long time (15years) significant other. The relationship is at the end and I have asked him to leave. He has made it perfectly clear that he is not going to leave and is making my daily life difficult. So I have made the decision to leave. Well here is the kicker, I paid and always have since purchasing the home 100% of the mortgage. His monthly pay does not even cover the principal and interest payment of the house. Once I leave (in the next couple of months) I will not be making the payments. Should I let the house go into foreclosure? I was thinking of maybe calling the lender and letting them know the situation and see if they can sell the property and fast forward a foreclosure. Just a little background-The property is relatively new and is worth about or maybe a little less than what I owe. Any advice would be great!

I have a parent that is in a bad position just left a horrible relationship and now he’s moved his family and 7 dogs into the property…just not sure if we have to do a 30 day eviction notice or just call the sheriffs office and have them handle it? She’s no longer in that state now.

I’ve been in a relationship with this GREAT woman thats younger than me by 5+ years for almost 2 years. Shes smart, she attend Northwestern University Grad school. shes funny and more importantly shes CHRISTIAN. I’m currently in the army reserves stationed in Iraq for most of our relationship. I’m coming home for 2 weeks for vacation then I go back. My family HATES her and send her emails and phone calls threaten her to stay away because they think she’s a golddigger. personally I dont think she is but I have been paying her bills like rent and utilty bills which isnt cheap in Evanston IL. I’m very close to my family I have 5 sisters and 4 brothers all older then me. I love my family and I respect their opinion about things. She tells me I should check them about what they are doing to her. I have in small ways but how do you tell your bros- sisters. thats old enough to be your mom and dad to back off? or are they right to be concerned?