What should I do?
I’ve been in a relationship with this GREAT woman thats younger than me by 5+ years for almost 2 years. Shes smart, she attend Northwestern University Grad school. shes funny and more importantly shes CHRISTIAN. I’m currently in the army reserves stationed in Iraq for most of our relationship. I’m coming home for 2 weeks for vacation then I go back. My family HATES her and send her emails and phone calls threaten her to stay away because they think she’s a golddigger. personally I dont think she is but I have been paying her bills like rent and utilty bills which isnt cheap in Evanston IL. I’m very close to my family I have 5 sisters and 4 brothers all older then me. I love my family and I respect their opinion about things. She tells me I should check them about what they are doing to her. I have in small ways but how do you tell your bros- sisters. thats old enough to be your mom and dad to back off? or are they right to be concerned?
Related posts:
- what to do? Please help? I’ve been in a relationship with this GREAT woman thats younger than me by 5+ years for almost 2 years. Shes smart, she attend Northwestern University Grad school. shes funny...
- crazy fam? I’ve been in a relationship with this GREAT woman thats younger than me by 5+ years for almost 2 years. Shes smart, she attend Northwestern University Grad school. shes funny...
- Crazy Family? I’ve been in a relationship with this GREAT woman thats younger than me by 5+ years for almost 2 years. Shes smart, she attend Northwestern University Grad school. shes funny...
- Should I sell my dog? I am 14 years old. My parents are divorced. For my 11th birthday my dad bought me a puppy. I named him Stanley. When my dad bought stanley, they told...
- How can I buy a house when I am refused for a pre approved mortgage? I only have enough money for a down payment but I still have to borrow a considerable amount. But according to the banks I dont make enough to buy a...
Tags: Army Reserves, Coming Home, Grad School
vacation property | , 20 Apr 10
By leary l, April 22, 2010 @ 10:14 pm
to be honest they have all right to be concern especially if you are the baby, however life is a gamble sometimes you win sometimes you lose if she is not taking advantage of you and not being rude to your family and if you feel like you want het then keep her your parents cant make you like anybody go with your heart
By Merrill L, April 24, 2010 @ 10:02 pm
They may be right. Stop paying her bills for her. A relationship should be equal, you should not be doing more then her. If you were living together you would be splitting the bill. If you were married you would be paying it for both of you money. She is just your girlfriend and living on her own. Make sure she isn’t taking advantage of you. Don’t pay for her stuff.
By mysteryousmtz, April 28, 2010 @ 1:55 am
You just need to tell them to back off and to stop threatening that girl and that it’s you who is going to make the decision weather to be with her or leave her. Good Luck and God Bless to you and your loved ones.